Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Bridging the Gap through Technology

So I've been thinking about home a lot for obvious reasons...well, if they aren't that obvious, they include the fact that we missed Thanksgiving and the fact that we will be home (Pittsburg, KS) in the next few weeks. That said, I am glad we live in a time like this where technology can help bridge the distance between friends and family. Thanks to the fact that all my siblings and one in-law have iDevices, the options of what app to use are aplenty! Lately, we've FaceTimed with Henry and Donovan, out nephews and what's becoming apparent is Henry's love of seeing his reflection on the screen. It has resulted in me taking pictures which are candid and loveable!

Henry and Donovan
Donovan below is putting forward his attractive smile while Henry is focused on hypnotizing us.  

I am convinced that Henry believes he has magic powers

Of course there's the loveable and completely adorable (pun intended) Adaora just after she woke up once whom we definitely don't see enough of.

See our silly bent heads
I honestly wish I could take more pictures of Henry when we FaceTime...it is quite the hilarity. He has a sharp mind and sometimes I am surprised at his quick responses including telling us we couldn't follow him on an adventure because it would take too long.

Henry at Aunty Nnene's during Thanksgiving

How apps have changed Communication
So in less than 3 weeks...the in person interactions will be priceless but for now, we will continue to try to use technology to bridge the gap so that out of sight doesn't have to be the norm.

Oh, one more piece of news...It appears Amy and I will be going to France in January on our way back! Amy is excited and all I can't think about is; How's the weather going to be?

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

I'll be home for Christmas (God-willing)...

It took 234 days after coming back to Lagos before I actually got the chance to see and spend some time with my maternal Grandmother. Just so that you know, she is the sweetest lady in the whole world. Case in point, she barely speaks any English but she learned enough sentences and called me on my birthday to wish me a happy birthday and as how I was doing. Little did she know that I has armed myself with Igbo and so I responded in Igbo and she was surprised and thrilled. Truth be told, I understand my native language much better than I can speak it. Anyway, one of my Uncles who lives in Mozambique came to town for the next month so we decided along with my mother to swing by and there she was. I missed seeing her smile and generally being around her.


She turns 83 this year and since the celebration is over Christmas, Amy and I will miss it. Which brings me to my next point...Amy and I will be home for Christmas (God willing) and I can't wait to see everyone especially all the kids. It feels like its been so long and that is because it has. Tomorrow is Thanksgiving so let me wish you all in the States, a Happy Thanksgiving. It will be the second straight we've missed out on the Turkey feasting and I'm bummed to say the least but I will survive. I guess I could do without all the feast right now since I am fat. Of all the things I am looking forward to heading back, I am not looking forward to the cold and I definitely have no interest in snow so dear God, I pray that it snows well enough before we get there and clears off and then it can resume after.


Well, that's pretty much it. Here are some other pictures that made it out of Ghana.





Well, again, I bid you Happy Thanksgiving...you now have 38 days to stuff your face before your New Year's Resolution starts...which means you have 51 days before your 2012 New Year's Resolution fails.

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Ghana: Our more responsible younger brother...

Having spent many years of my life in Lagos, Nigeria, it always seemed a bit odd to me that I had never been to Ghana save for a 2005 Alitalia flight that briefly stopped over in Accra. So when the opportunity arose for Amy and I to do so, we jumped at it. Originally, we have discussed going to Dubai but when that fell through, any alternatives were welcome. Ayo, a childhood friend of mine as well as his Ghana based business partner were so gracious and took care of all the planning and preparation. Initially, we were supposed to spend Sunday night in Accra, but plans changed and as soon as we landed, we were whisked away by car for about a 100miles westward down the coastline til we got to a sleepy fishing village called Ada, just off the Atlantic Ocean.
Amy and Ayo being very social with their mobile devices at the aiport

It was dark so we didn't see much nor did we know what to expect. Once we arrived, our host, a friend of my friend had sent a boat to pick us up and take us to his private island about a mile away nicknamed Tampa. When we got to Tampa, we almost mistook it for a UN convention due to the amount to nationalities there. It was amazing - Countries represented include USA, England, Ireland, France, Germany, Egypt, Morocco, Lebanon, Zimbabwe, Mexico, Spain, Ghana and of course Nigeria. Meeting so many new people from different places actually made us feel very much at home! There was food everywhere and soon after we had started a nice bonfire, some local fishermen paddled their boat over with a large Barracuda they had just fished out. Mounib, Ayo's business partner and now my brother from another father and mother purchased it for lunch the following day. We all just hung out by the fire exchanging stories and having.

Cool Breezy Evening begged for a Fire
 
The following day, Mounib gave us a tour of the community by water. Lots of beautiful homes and had we not come there by road, we won't have believed this was in Africa. The locals were so very nice and they seemed very content as well. After breakfast we went out to the beach and my, was it the epitome of "unspoiled beaches". Later than morning, Amy and I tried wakeboarding...she passed, I failed. I did get a fair share of sea water in my system. To cut all the story short, we spent the next day eating a lot of jet skiing. Made me miss my old motorcycle. It was powerful and once I saw at what speed Amy was pushing that thing around, I knew I would be going as fast as I could. Now, I want one!

Not to the locals...
We came with our game faces
Mounib giving us a tour
Ayo scoping out the scenery
Someone's Large Vacation Home
Left to Right: Ayo, Yolanda (Mexican), Amy and Ugo
The first batch taking off to the Beach
Oh, the Atlantic...
Fun Faces still on
Off the front Porch of our Host Rustom's Island Home
Now she wants one...
Now I want one...
By noon Tuesday, we went back to Accra and I was very impressed with the current development structurally going on in that city. Ghana as a country has a lot of tremendous potential and Accra as a city just might be the place to be to start a business. Lots of opportunities that right now are mostly being controlled by foreigners which isn't necessarily a bad thing. But I would love to see more Ghanians partner with the foreign money and grow their middle class. I am rooting for Ghana, our seemingly more responsible younger brother. At night, the streets were alive with a blend of locals and foreigners and for a city, it appeared to be very safe. I wouldn't dare be out past 9pm in Lagos but in Accra, we were out till midnight.
Departing Ada
Part of the Country Side

We were to depart Wednesday at 12.55pm but Ayo and I stopped by one of his project sites by the airport and thinking we had plenty time, we stayed there conducting business. But alas! that decision to linger caused us to miss our flight. Because for the first time in history, a flight in Africa leaving for Nigeria actually left on schedule. We re-booked for the evening flight and hung out for the rest of the afternoon at the Holiday Inn by the airport. We then showed up for our evening flight very promptly and of course it departed an hour late. On arrival, Amy got a bit sick at immigration but she's doing well now. Other than that little bit of hitch (well, and the flight issue), we had a marvelous time and are very grateful to all the people that made it so.

Ghana, I will be back (God willing)...we made some good friends and being only a 45 minute flight, there's no reason why we couldn't go there again on short holidays so I guess it is "see you later" after all. The next holiday is not till Christmas for which I can say (God willing), "I'll be home for Christmas."